Call me by your name

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We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster,

that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty

and have less to offer each time we start with someone new.

But to make yourself feel nothing so as not to feel anything

- what a waste!

Then let me say one more thing. It will clear the air. I may have come close, but I never had what you two had. Something always held me back or stood in the way. How you live your life is your business. Remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. And before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it.

Right now there’s sorrow. Pain. Don’t kill it and with it the joy you’ve felt.

We may never speak about this again. But I hope you’ll never hold it against me that we did. I will have been a terrible father if, one day, you’d want to speak to me and felt that the door was shut, or not sufficiently open.

 

- An impressive scene in this movie Perlman's line. [CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Screenplay by James Ivory]